Merry Meet all............
I am a woman in recovery. I have been clean and sober now over 13 years...I learned early on with the "12 step" program, that you need to "Clean your house..." (your soul)...before you can attempt to achieve in your life. By doing what is called a "4th step", which basically is trusting another individual, and sharing with them all the "Garbage" that you've been keeping down deep inside. Things you've done...things done wrong to you.... all the hurt and pain.....things that you fear....things that happened to you that made you who you are today. Things that you may still be doing....or are tempted to do. People you've hurt....it's about getting rid of all that s**t. Preferably you would do it with someone you trust, and who also can identify with you, like another recovering addict....but you do not have to be a recovering addict to do a 4th step.
I believe that it is vital for everyone to get rid of what you carry with you day by day. It's important to share what hurts you have deep inside with someone. This acknowledges that you've been through this, or you've done that............therefore cleansing yourself.
It builds up your self esteem once you've learned forgiveness, and or receive forgiveness for your sins. (so to speak).........
Then can you now look to change a defect of character, or wish for a future goal that is positive, and in which you now feel you deserve and can achieve.
On the sabbat of Samhain, write down all the things you feel you need changing, all of your character defects..Ex:....lieing....stealing, cheating, the seven sins..So to speak...).........write these down on a piece of parchment paper or brown paper bag. fold up the paper and burn it in your cauldron....or if you don't have one, place the paper in a item that is fireproof, and burn.
Say this incantation as the paper burns:
"Light to light, I give it up to thee...
all the things, feelings and wrongs
that are with in me".
As they turn to ash, I am let free.
All that I long for now can be.
So Mote it Be!
Next, take a piece of the same paper and now right down all the things that you wish for. Make sure that the things are feasable, with in reach. Short term goals...try to keep aways for Long term goals....It's "baby steps"....in order to achieve the Larger goals, you need first to perform smaller achievements. Never set yourself up for failure or higher expectations. Cause it will just set you up to feel worse than before and resought to old ways.
Take the paper, fold it, and now you will bless them with the four elements. Light inscense and pass the paper through the smoke..(air)...then take and anoint the paper with blessed water (water) by sprinkling a little on it. Then take and very carefully pass the paper over the top of a candle flame..(fire) preferably a white candle.
and lastly, take and place the paper in a bowl of soil, or anything "earthy" (earth)....leave it there for several moments. Remove your paper and now place it on your Altar. Somewhere concealed. Now forget about it.
Some people choose to anoint the paper with "Anointing Oil"...for an added blessing.
You should see results withing days. Once you have achieved the small wish, goal....remove the paper and say a prayer of thanks to the Lord and Lady. Take the paper and throw it in the ocean. (If you do not live near water, you can take the piece of paper and set it the "winds"...and let the air take it away..)
You can repeat this wish/goal spell several times....each time working towards a higher goal.
I've done this, and have achieved EVERY SINGLE GOAL I asked for.
I've been blessed....
I believe also that it's a POSITIVE OUTLOOK and a POSITIVE FRAME OF MIND..that helps this spell to achieve the results you want.
"Intentions are 1/3 of all desires."
Blessings,
Michelle
"SCORPION GODDESS"

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